
It’s not nice hearing your own voice
‘Do I really sound like that?’ is how people invariably respond when they hear a recording of their own voice. Or they used to, anyway. Your own voice was something you heard a lot but never actually heard from the outside. But in the age of voice memos, podcasts and TikToks, we are much more likely to have to hear our voices. It was eerie to hear my voice reading words I would have sworn I hadn’t said from just a minute before I recently read the audiobook of my new book, Gay Shame – all eight and a half hours of it – so I was confronted with vocal
