Mary Killen Mary Killen

Your Problems Solved | 8 May 2004

Etiquette advice from The Spectator's Miss Manners

issue 08 May 2004

Dear Mary….

Q. A friend who invited me to stay for a few days in France has told me I can get a lift in the plane of one of the other guests. I am a nervous flyer at the best of times and particularly nervous at the thought that the plane-owner, whom I do not know well but who has an aura of recklessness about him, might be at the wheel. How can I delicately find out whether it will be he or a proper pilot with braid on his shoulders? Should the former be the case and my destiny be in the hands of the plane’s owner, I would rather go No Frills but No Kills.
K.L., Wantage, Oxfordshire

A. Ring up the hospitable plane-owner to thank him for his offer and to get details of departure times, et cetera.

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