Mary Killen Mary Killen

Your Problems Solved | 6 August 2005

Etiquette advice from The Spectator's Miss Manners

issue 06 August 2005

Dear Mary…

Q. I was entertaining a friend to drinks one evening after the pub. When he left (at approximately 1 a.m.) he called up to me from the pavement to say that as he was leaving he had heard one of my neighbours (there are six flats in the building) complaining about the noise coming from my flat. I had been playing music and I concede that — although not greatly loud — it could have been heard by others at this quiet time of day. Naturally, I turned it off. In the morning I woke up to find that I had no electricity in the flat. On further investigation, I discovered that one of my neighbours had turned off my electricity supply at the meter box in the common part of the house. I am not an unreasonable person and would have turned down the music had anyone knocked on my door to say it was disturbing them.

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