Mary Killen Mary Killen

Your Problems Solved | 23 October 2004

Etiquette advice from The Spectator's Miss Manners

issue 23 October 2004

Dear Mary…

Q. As the father of two young daughters, I naturally want their upbringing to be as happy as possible and part of this, I understand, involves toys and dolls. However, my wife and I are forever being given our friends’ plastic cast-offs. We have reached the limit of plastic fruit, crockery, cutlery or Lego. Our little Fulham house increasingly resembles a municipal dump; my wife is constantly tidying up. How can I dissuade our ‘kind’ friends from off-loading their unwanted plastic on to us or buying yet more cheap birthday/Christmas presents that keep the girls occupied only for the time that it takes to rip open the paper? Books, clothes, shoes or donations to school fees, on the other hand, would be genuinely welcomed.
Name withheld, London

A. Your wife can pre-empt any further dumping by telling your friends that your children have developed an allergy to plastic and they now become hyperactive with an inability to concentrate while handling said product.

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