Mary Killen Mary Killen

Your Problems Solved | 12 April 2003

Etiquette advice from The Spectator's Miss Manners

issue 12 April 2003

Dear Mary… Q. My husband’s 87-year-old father is greatly enjoying the Iraq war. With an understandable sense of personal invulnerability, he has been sitting in his ‘safe house’ in Cornwall, watching virtually every news bulletin and revelling in ‘the deep satisfaction of seeing rockets hitting their targets’, et cetera. We are taking our children, aged 9, 11 and l3, to stay with him for Easter. The house is not particularly big, but he has told us that all normal decorum will be suspended for the duration of the war, so he will have the television on nonstop in the one small sitting-room. Since he is deaf, it will be blaring away. How can we avoid being subjected to this harrowing coverage, which will traumatise our children as well as sickening and boring us?
Name and address withheld
A. Many deaf pensioners are unaware that by simply pressing the Ceefax button on their remote control, then 888, they can revert to the channel they were watching and see subtitles scrolling up, even in the case of live news bulletins.

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