Mary Killen Mary Killen

Your problems solved | 11 February 2016

Plus: A Ladybird guide to the EU referendum; an invitation clash

issue 13 February 2016

Q. I recently rediscovered a wonderful 22-year-old godson. He came to shoot for the first time and was a marvellous guest — impressing others to the extent of even receiving a potential job offer. He has wonderful manners but although he thanked us profusely while under our roof, he has not as yet written his thanks. Shooting thank-you letters are still much appreciated by hosts. It does not matter a jot to us that he has not written, as he is now ‘family’. However, as godmother, I worry that his maybe not knowing that a handwritten thank-you letter for a shooting invitation is de rigueur could jeopardise his success elsewhere. How can I tactfully convey this?
— O.A., Suffolk

A. Email the boy promptly. Say ‘I must have given you the wrong postcode. Would you mind terribly writing again? As always, we look forward to including your memories of the day in our Game Book along with those of all the other guns.’

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