Mary Killen Mary Killen

Your Problems Solved | 11 December 2004

Etiquette advice from The Spectator's Miss Manners

issue 11 December 2004

Dear Mary…

Q. In Scotland the Celtic tradition favours the female line (hence hereditary titles passing to daughters in the absence of an immediate male heir). In my opinion it would therefore be entirely appropriate for G.C. (4 December) to wear his wife’s tartan at a reeling party, provided (as stated) it is worn with respect. Highland dress and Scottish country dancing make a colourful combination, but if your correspondent has further reservations I suggest he might consider acquiring a pair of tartan trews.
Roddy Martine, Edinburgh

A. There is logic in your argument. However, my straw poll of Scottish noblewomen with English husbands revealed that the majority would be horrified if their husbands dressed in a kilt. Nevertheless the daughter of Lady Saltoun, chief of the Frasers, has an English husband who has embraced the style.

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