Alex Massie Alex Massie

Wedding Crashers in Japan

I don’t pretend to understand Japan at all, but while this may seem rather funny, it’s surely also terribly melancholy:

Japanese couples, too busy for a normal social life, are increasingly turning to actors to play their friends on the most important days of their lives.

Several agencies have sprung up offering actors to attend weddings or even funerals…

Agencies such as Hagemashi Tai – which means “I want to cheer you up” – charge around £100 for each “guest”. Other services such as giving a speech in praise of a bride or the groom cost extra.

Increasingly busy and put upon, many Japanese surround themselves with only a very small circle of friends…

When they marry, however, they are under pressure to match the number of their new partner’s wedding guests.

Office Agents, the largest provider of pretend friends, makes sure that its employees have done their homework and know all about the bride or groom before the wedding.

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