Julie Bindel

There’s nothing more delicious than a table for one

Eating alone is a real taste of freedom

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Automat by Edward Hopper (Des Moines Art Center)

I was invited to speak at a conference in Barcelona in the late 1990s. At the end of a very long, hard day, my genial Spanish feminist hosts invited me to dinner, telling me they would meet me in the hotel lobby at 10.30 p.m. I almost went into some sort of traumatic shock. I was aware of the Catalonian reputation for eating late – sometimes as late as midnight, at weekends – but I was having none of it.

I have been told by waiters that a bottle of wine is ‘too much for a lady on her own’

I bade my colleagues farewell and found myself a gorgeous little tapas bar that was open at 7.30 p.m. I ate bread with deep green olive oil, deep red tomato and roasted garlic, octopus salad with waxy potatoes, jamon croquettes, and a plate of marinated anchovies. As I sipped my ice-cold, bone-dry sherry I felt relieved to be alone.

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