Boris Johnson wants to give his father a knighthood. How very classical of him! Xenophon said that it was ‘the mark of a man to excel his friends in benefaction and his enemies in harm’ and no one was more of a friend than a man’s father. This mantra to do good to your friends and harm to your enemies was endlessly and publicly repeated (so litigation between family members and injustice against a relation caused great embarrassment).
But how did one make friends beyond parents and kinsmen? Mutual benefit was the answer, the argument being prudential. Pericles argued that Athenians stood out from the crowd in this respect: ‘We acquire friends not in consequence of what they do for us but what we do for them… he who takes the initiative is a firmer friend… we alone confer benefits without the need to calculate our own interests first.
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