Zoe Strimpel

Swindled daters aren’t the only ones cynical about Tinder

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Ayleen Charlotte, The Tinder Swindler (Netflix)

Elliot, 28: ‘My greatest achievements in life are: drinking a bottle of Listerine in 10 seconds, beating my laptop at chess on easy difficult and surviving till the age of 28’. 

Frank, 40: ‘Professional career, into extreme sports and stay fit, yet also enjoy the finer things in life like diner [sic] and a glass of champagne.’

It’s the communication culture spawned by Tinder itself that is the biggest menace

These were the first two Tinder profiles I saw when I opened the app after watching Netflix’s The Tinder Swindler. They capture the fairly gormless but harmless nature of most male Tinder profiles, with fairly gormless but harmless men attached. Well, not just gormless: I’ve been on enough Tinder dates to know that there are plenty of unreliable, sometimes cruel, often inconsiderate and flakey (or angry) men on there. And Tinder certainly has its share of bad apples – reports of romance fraud went up by 40 per cent in the year to 2021, a period in which people were conned out of an eye-watering £73.9m,

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