People who scream on buses need looking after – but not by me

Where does the Big Society stand on the screamers on the bus? We had one the other day. It was during the rush hour, and I was late to pick up my daughter from the nursery. It was a big lady, heavily upholstered in beige, dragging a trolley almost the same size which was upholstered in tartan. The bus jolted, she almost fell, and we all rushed to help her, like David Cameron surely reckons we’re supposed to. That should have been that. The next time the bus stopped, though, she was off up the aisle, trolley battering through plenty of people older and fatter than her, to shriek at the driver. Leave it, love, said some. It’s busy, he didn’t mean it, no harm done, we all want to get home.

But she was a screamer. Poor woman. None of us had realised. All around the bus, you could see, passengers were listening, noting that her grievances were not entirely bus-based, and letting themselves clang shut.