Emma Beddington

Nina Stibbe’s eye for the absurd is as sharp as ever

Back in London after an absence of 20 years, she’s no longer a literary outsider – but she’s still an acute observer, relishing the foibles of everyone she meets

Nina Stibbe. [Alamy] 
issue 28 October 2023

Nina Stibbe is back in London. It has been 20 years since she left, and 40 years since she first arrived from Leicester to nanny, ineptly, for Mary-Kay Wilmers, the editor of the London Review of Books.

Back then, she chronicled her adventures (minor car crashes; thinking Alan Bennett was in Coronation Street; inadvertently stealing Jonathan Miller’s saw) in deadpan letters to her sister Vic that became the delicious Love, Nina. This time she’s resolved to keep a diary of her year as ‘Debby’ Moggach’s lodger in a narrow Kentish Town terrace with an over-watered garden she already disapproves of. ‘I’ll write it Alan Bennett-style,’ she says in a gleeful bit of Bennett-baiting (he was notoriously thin-lipped about his appearances in Love, Nina), then dissects the form, imagining him writing about tea with Ian McEwan: ‘Details of tea… add a quaint thing McEwan said… then round off with something mischievous or banal involving a royal or a writer from the 1950s.

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