He didn’t linger

The Australian Robert Dessaix, a Russian scholar, chooses to regard himself, in relation to Western civilisation, as an ancient Greek might have considered a Phrygian or a Scythian — a barbarian outsider. This, he believes, brings him even closer to his beloved and Russian Turgenev, who spent most of his adult life outside Russia, but whom his lifelong love, the French opera singer Pauline Viardot, always regarded as ‘a barbarian’. This famous love leads Dessaix to speculate about the nature of love itself. It was ‘triangular’, in the sense that Viardot was married, and, in the manner of the 12th-century troubadours, it became a ‘courtly love’. Turgenev more or less followed her and her husband round Europe, living near them or with them, building houses next to them, at one time in their garden. Dessaix sees Turgenev as Viardot’s ‘troubadour’. Whatever intimacy he may have hoped for in the beginning, it ‘declined’ into passionate friendship, but only in the grammatical sense of ‘decline’; the noun remains ‘love’.