Melanie McDonagh Melanie McDonagh

Don’t wait for One Day

The perfect soulmate is an illusion that can ruin your life

issue 03 September 2011

The correct response to the film One Day is, apparently, to cry your eyes out. Me, I couldn’t squeeze a single tear; in fact the sentiment I could barely suppress throughout was rising irritation. If ever two characters needed a slap it’s the hero and heroine of One Day. Let me explain. This is a film based on David Nicholls’s best-selling novel — and I don’t think I’m giving too much away here given the number of spoiler reviews — about a boy and a girl who never quite get it together for years and years, almost until it’s too late.

For most of 20 years, in fact, between 1988 and 2004, she fancies him and he quite fancies her but he is so distracted by the number of floozies who want to have sex with him, he never quite realises that the girl he nearly slept with on their graduation day at Edinburgh University, the one he finds pretty and intelligent with strong views on nuclear weapons, is in fact the girl he should have married right at the start.

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