Mika Ross-Southall

Desperate for love: Very Cold People, by Sarah Manguso, reviewed

Growing up in New England, in a town simmering with menace, Ruthie suffers the agonies of parental neglect

Sarah Manguso. [Beowulf Sheehan] 
issue 29 April 2023

‘My parents were liars,’ the narrator Ruthie says at the beginning of Sarah Manguso’s unsettling debut novel. Looking back on her abusive childhood in a New England town near Boston in the 1980s, she recounts how her father wore a fake Rolex that didn’t work, and her narcissistic mother was obsessed with social climbing, pinning the wedding announcements of local Mayflower descendants on the fridge as if she knew them. Ruthie observes everything in high definition, from her parents’ neglect (‘I have no memories of being held’) to their naked bodies flopping on top of each other while they all share the same bed. In a disturbing scene, her mother, who seems to have been traumatised by her own upbringing, asks her elementary school daughter to spell the f-word.

Manguso excels at capturing the perspective of a child desperate for the love of people who don’t know how to give it.

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