Mary Killen Mary Killen

Dear Mary: How do I stop people telling me about their holidays?

issue 25 March 2023

Q. American clients emailed saying they were coming to Europe this spring and inviting us and another couple on a fantastic-sounding boat trip in the eastern Mediterranean which we rather shamelessly accepted. Last week I got a further email saying, as the holiday was approaching, it was time to sort out the financial side of things, ending up with some terrifying figures that we would owe them. Looking back at the email chain, I found an attachment to the original invitation, which we hadn’t opened, showing a breakdown of the costs as shared between the three couples. There is no way we can afford it but, for professional reasons, cannot confess this. Help!

– Name and address withheld

A. Break the news that, maddeningly, you will have to withdraw. You have been unable to get any sense from the Passport Office, where your passports have been languishing in the queue for renewal.

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