Mary Killen Mary Killen

Dear Mary: how do I stop my husband stripping off in the sun?

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issue 17 June 2023

Q. I own a small boutique in north London selling secondhand clothes which are exclusively couture. An acquaintance is a frequent shopper but has a tendency to return items a few days after buying them with reasons like ‘My husband didn’t like the colour’ or ‘I think it’s too young for me.’ I have been tipped off by a mutual friend that she is wearing these clothes to parties before bringing them back for a refund. I would feel awkward confronting her but I would like to get the better of her. What is the best way to do this, Mary?

– B.B., London NW8

A. Online retailers have noticed a surge in ‘wardrobing’ – ordering clothing to wear just once, usually without removing any tags, and then returning the item for a refund after use. Next time she walks into your boutique – and before she has time to open her bag – invoke the name of the person who sold you the item of clothing and gush: ‘XXXXX saw you in that pink Chanel skirt the other day and said you looked fantastic in it – much better than it ever looked on her.’

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