Mary Killen Mary Killen

Dear Mary: How do I avoid hugging at a funeral?

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issue 17 July 2021

Q. I have been double-vaccinated but am especially at risk and, since I know of at least four double-vaccinated people who have still caught the virus, am anxious to avoid being infected myself. So far I have confined my socialising to outdoor events — however a funeral for a much-loved great-uncle looms and among those attending will be some Covid deniers who have not been vaccinated. I’ve known these friends all my life and it will be impossible to stop them hugging me or sitting close to me in the church, which is likely to be packed. Not attending is not an option. What should I do?

— L.P., Northants

A. You can go to the funeral but do not take a seat in the church. Instead get there early and stand outside, ideally issuing service sheets and nodding as the other mourners arrive.

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