Mary Killen Mary Killen

Dear Mary: how can my daughter defy her friends and stay tattoo-less?

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issue 24 February 2024

Q. My husband had my portrait painted for my 40th birthday and everyone says it is an amazing likeness. Now his business partner wants the same artist to capture his wife on canvas. We are anxious because, as my husband says, the wife is ‘no looker’ and the artist is not one to give a rose-tinted view of one of her sitters. Should we tactfully discourage this commission?

– J.S., Northants

A. Consider these words from one leading portraitist: ‘You want to reproduce the humanity, the character, rather than the appearance. Glamorous people are a nightmare to paint. As an artist I far prefer the “non-glamorous”. You can manipulate the situation – on the pose, don’t show too much of the face – have them looking slightly away. Make the most of the background, hats, scarves, furniture… Non-glamorous sitters are often pleasantly surprised – their modesty is rather moving.’

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