Mary Killen Mary Killen

Dear Mary: How can I accept a party invitation when I don’t know who’s going?

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issue 20 June 2020

Q. I know it is rude to ask, when invited to a dinner party, ‘who else is coming?’ I assumed, therefore, that it would have been equally churlish to ask, when invited to a private piano recital to be staged in the garden of a large country house, ‘what is the repertoire?’ And so I just accepted.

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