Mary Killen Mary Killen

Dear Mary | 5 March 2011

Your problems solved

issue 05 March 2011

Q. A talented young man helps me out as an intern. Sadly I can’t personally offer him full-time work but I have a close friend who will be recruiting shortly. This man tells me he will be looking for young people who are bilingual and super-bright — but that he prefers school leavers to graduates as he wants to ‘mould’ them. The work he is offering is interesting, but although my intern is bilingual and superbright, he is a 24-year-old graduate and, quite rightly, self-confident and fully aware of his own worth. Should I tell my intern to pretend to be humble and mouldable? Or should I let him emanate his usual brio? I don’t want to deceive my older friend, but if this new control freakery of his could cause him to miss out on a star find, would deceit be excusable?

— S.W., London SW4

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