Mary Killen Mary Killen

Dear Mary  

Etiquette advice from The Spectator

issue 02 February 2008

Q. I wonder if you can give me some advice. My parents have agreed I can have 20 people to a party in our house in Balham. I am 16 but very responsible so they agreed to go out between 7 p.m. and 11 when the party is taking place, though they would only go somewhere a few minutes away so they could come back in an emergency. The problem is that now they have found out that all their friends who live in Balham will be out on the night of the party and my father is diabetic, so he doesn’t like to eat later than seven. He does not want to sit in a restaurant for three and a half hours waiting until it is time to come back again. What do you suggest, Mary?
B.F., London SW12

A. Now that most hotels have been ‘poncified’, your parents will easily find a local one to which they can repair while your party is taking place.

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