Mary Killen Mary Killen

Dear Mary… | 4 February 2006

Etiquette advice from The Spectator's Miss Manners

issue 04 February 2006

Q. Speaking of pellets, as you did last week, may I ask something else? Whenever I have eaten birds, it has always been quite an informal occasion where one didn’t have to worry about, well, what to do with shot. One could simply more or less neatly take it out of one’s mouth. But if one were dining more formally and the issue arose — is it necessary to swallow?
B.T., Berkeley, California

A. It is never necessary to swallow shot. Having worked it to the tip of your tongue, give your lips a swift wipe with your napkin and let the shot be swept to the floor as you do so. Should contact with the floor be audible, ignore the sound — no need to comment.

Q. The central London flat where I normally live is having essential repairs carried out and I have to move out next week.

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