Q. We entertain a lot and are used to coping with requests from guests who are vegetarian or have an allergy, etc. However, recently a guest replied that he would like to attend a dinner (given to enable discussion of a political matter) and he would like to eat either a 600g salmon steak or a beef steak, either to be served with boiled broccoli. What would be your reaction, Mary?
—T.C., London W1
A. Normally one would withdraw the invitation with ‘Sorry, that could be problematic — perhaps another time’, but if this character’s attendance is important for political reasons, then go along with his stipulation, but so as to be seen to pander to him. Make salmon or steak and broccoli the main course for everyone, but with something key, like butter-based sauce, served in individual side dishes — for normal guests, but not for him. When he asks for some, exclaim pleasantly, ‘Oh sorry! But I am sure you did not mention sauce when you rang with your order.’
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