Mary Killen Mary Killen

Dear Mary… | 27 January 2007

Etiquette advice from The Spectator's Miss Manners

issue 27 January 2007

Q. Unlike your correspondent J.G. of Bath, I received a prompt and fulsome letter from my 15-year-old godson thanking me for the money I had sent him at Christmas. Unfortunately, this year I had sent no gifts of any kind to any of my godchildren. I did sheepishly admit this to his mother, but she refused to believe me. What should I do to rectify this?
A.R., East Sussex

A. The boy may have mixed you up with another godparent in a case of embarrass de richesse. You should resolve the matter by sending him some cash anyway. Remind him as you do so that there may well be another godparent to whom he owes a letter — he having possibly thanked you in error instead of the genuine beneficiary. Bear in mind that the child may have been trying to prompt you to deliver your usual goods, in which case you must admire his cunning.

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