Mary Killen Mary Killen

Dear Mary | 24 January 2013

issue 26 January 2013

Q. My husband uses a wheelchair at airports all over the world but I find it very difficult to know when, and how much, to give the kind attendants. One man happily pocketed ten euros at Amsterdam last month, while another (a woman) refused to take anything at all. I believe it is standard to tip five or ten dollars in the US but I have had polite refusals in the UK and elsewhere.  Any advice on how much and where to proffer gratefully received.
— S.S., Crieff

A. Tipping etiquette is in chaos. Not only is there no international consistency but there has been a generational change so that even in London taxi-drivers have got used to people not tipping; in the country it has for some reason always been more normal not to tip taxis. But the truth is that all the hand-wringing about this is one-sided. The giver may worry and worry and worry, and want to do the right thing.

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