Q. I am organising my 30th birthday party weekend at a large country house kindly lent to me by friends of my parents. The house sleeps 25. I’m drawing up a plan for bedroom distribution, and find myself in a predicament because there is a large disparity regarding the luxuriousness of the bedrooms. Some have stunning sea views with four-posters, claw-footed bathtubs and chandeliers, while others are converted servants’ rooms, have sloping attic ceilings, single beds, shared bathrooms and views of the car park. How do I allocate the bedrooms without causing offence to the ‘losers’? The truth is that the grander ones would suffer much more from the discomfort of the bad rooms than the ones unused to luxury.
— B. R., Fulham, London
A. Before you go, have a conversation with your closest friends outlining the situation. Adopt a conspiratorial air as you propose allotting them the worst bedrooms, explaining that this is because you feel closer and more comfortable with them than other guests whom you may be seeking to impress or propitiate.
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