Mary Killen Mary Killen

Dear Mary | 18 April 2009

Your problems solved

issue 18 April 2009

Q. Have you any ideas on how to deal with recurrent offenders in the party-present line? I have an old and intimate friend who always brings a present almost insultingly slight, but, more seriously, also invariably well past its sell-by date. One small jar of pickle was two years too old. Other old friends contributed to an important birthday bash a splendidly packaged bottle of whisky which on opening turned out to have been half-consumed. My view has always been that these little trials must be borne in silence (and with gratitude for being given anything at all); obviously to retaliate with out-of-date or used goods would be simply to earn a reputation for meanness oneself. But perhaps there are ways of getting one’s own back, or at least letting these people know they have been rumbled?

Name and address withheld

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