Q. I want my guests to feel welcome when they stay with us and certainly don’t want to nag them. My problem is with some in-laws who I can only describe as ‘un-housetrained’. It’s fine when they are downstairs where I can keep an eye on them, but their bedroom is a problem. Last time they came they left soaking bath towels on their beds, a window open in a gale and a glass of red wine on the carpet just waiting to be kicked over. They know we don’t have cleaners so there is no excuse for anyone to go into their room other than to snoop, but it drives me mad not knowing what’s happening up there. What do you recommend?
— Name address withheld
A. Why not employ the established bedroom-checking technique as used in many country houses, namely, to keep delivering flowers to the bedrooms? This gives the host an excuse to have a snoop and the chance to make good any risk hazards encountered.
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