Once again Mary has invited some of her favourite figures in the public eye to submit personal queries for her attention.
From Plum Sykes
Q. I have always given Christmas presents to all my five siblings and their children. Just to put you in the picture, the presents are at the Ralph Lauren cashmere sweater or Lanvin costume jewellery-type level. Although, being in the fashion industry, I do get enormous discounts on these things, they are still quite pricey. Last year I finally faced up to the fact that my siblings never, ever send me or my children Christmas presents. So I decided not to send any to them. The plan backfired as I felt tragic and mean and none of them even noticed the lack of presents from me. Only I suffered, because I love giving pressies and I didn’t get to do this. I shouldn’t mind — especially as I find that I rarely receive presents I actually want anyway — but I do! Please advise for this year.
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