Lee Langley

Bittersweet memories: Ti Amo, by Hanne Ørstavik, reviewed

A grieving widow recalls many foreign trips she enjoyed with her husband – but a particular one to Venice sadly haunts her

Hanne Ørstavik. [Getty Images] 
issue 03 September 2022

This is a deceptively slim novel. Its 96 pages contain multitudes: two lives, past and present, seamlessly interwoven. The narrator, a Norwegian novelist, and her Italian husband live in Milan. ‘Ti amo,’ they frequently tell each other. Easier to say ‘I love you’, than for him to say he’s dying, and her to say she doesn’t know what she’ll do without him.

When did it all start, she wonders. ‘When did you actually become ill?’

We’re encouraged these days to view everything as a journey, including marriage, and theirs has been a marriage of many journeys, emotional and geographical: literary festivals, seminars, conferences, interspersed with private time – dinners in elegant restaurants, picnics in hotel rooms; laughter and sex. Four years of a shared life, in sickness and in health.

Graham Greene believed a writer has a splinter of ice in the heart.

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