How To Survive Your Mother is a play based on a memoir by political dramatist Jonathan Maitland. He portrays himself in the show, and he muses on the wisdom of turning his manipulative, devious, sex-mad mother into a dramatic heroine. In the end, he’s swayed by ‘Edinburgh derangement syndrome’ as he calls it. ‘You’re diagnosed with terminal cancer and you think: “Great, there’s a show in this.”’
His mother, Bru, was a Jewish refugee from Haifa who posed as a Frenchwoman with Spanish roots to protect herself from the anti-Semitic bigotry. Her self-taught skills included seduction, bribery and fake suicide attempts. Aged 16, she was told by her father to ditch her boyfriend so she threw herself out of a fifth-floor window. ‘I broke every bone in my body,’ she says, with typical exaggeration. She doted on Maitland and sent him to boarding school where he was thrashed by the headmaster who expected to hear the young boy say ‘thank you, sir’ after each beating.
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