Chloë Ashby

A fierce defiance: Love Me Tender, by Constance Debré, reviewed

Separated from her husband, Constance trains herself to be ‘indestructible’ while awaiting a ruling over custody of their son

Constance Debré. [Getty Images] 
issue 07 January 2023

‘I don’t see why the love between a mother and son should be any different from other kinds of love. Why shouldn’t we be allowed to stop loving each other? Why shouldn’t we be allowed to break up?’ So begins Love Me Tender, the simply told but deeply felt new novel from Constance Debré, a story inspired by the French writer’s experience of leaving her husband and losing custody of her child. A story that’s quietly heartbreaking and fiercely defiant.

When we meet our narrator, Constance, she has been separated from Laurent for three years, though definitions are fuzzy: ‘I call him my ex, he still calls me his wife.’ A dozen pages in she tells him over dinner at their favourite Paris restaurant that she’s started seeing girls and wants a divorce –   ‘in case there was any doubt in his mind, with the new short hair, the new tattoos’.

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